Awareness
- Uncover past relationship patterns and beliefs.
- Assess conscious and unconscious influences on your energy.
- Clear generational patterns, forging new aligned pathways.
- Develop mental mastery and a secure dating strategy.
Joy with Jax
Inner transformations that ignite a life of joy.
Certified life & relationship coaching to help you attract — and build — a secure, juicy relationship.
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Jax (a.k.a. Jacqueline Stevens)
Certified Life & Relationship Coach
I specialize in supporting high-achieving, freedom-seeking professionals who crave LOVE to navigate their own self-discovery & desires so they attract & create deeply secure and juicy relationships.
I'm a corporate global director turned transformational coach, educator, and speaker, here to support your inner transformation and outer growth. My philosophy: joy is a result of your ability to be intimate within yourself.
I help you break patterns, embody Emotional Fitness, and create new relationship outcomes — so you can master your emotions and mindset and elevate your life, energy, and relationships.
More on my journey here
Client backgrounds I've supported
Corporate wellness programs
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Non-profits: Mental Health America
The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships.
Esther Perel
Have you been defining your life through your work, your achievements, your finances, friends, or your passport stamps?
The reality?
Your boss isn't going to make you breakfast in bed. Your passport isn't going to keep you warm at night. An aligned & secure partnership? Will make your life easier (and juicier).
The good news is…
The love that you desire, desires you!
You've invested in skills through your education — now let's build the skills that create secure, juicy relationships.
I desire that
Are you?
You're a people pleaser who chronically put others' needs before your own, even at the expense of your well-being. You struggle to rest, relax, and prioritize pleasure in your life because it feels like there's no time for yourself (plus isn't pleasure a sin?).
You tend to define yourself by how others perceive you, agreeing to commitments without checking in with your desires first. You apologize often, even if you've done nothing wrong, and you seek approval and validation from others.
You've likely been to therapy (yay!), have awareness of some of your patterns, you might know how you've been getting in your own way, but you aren't making the progress you want and are ready to try something new.
And you're also…
In your spare time you love a good self-help book and you frequent podcasts because you love learning. But what are you truly implementing? Information is only useful when it's used. You are craving deeper love and richer, more supportive relationships.
You're fearful to speak your needs, or may not even be in touch with them. You stuff your emotions and concerns to maintain the appearance of "peace" — even though that's not the feeling you're creating. You mirror other people and fear being yourself.
You find it challenging to trust others or lean on people for support; you believe you must do everything on your own. You focus on wanting things to be perfect, and because of that you fail to take clear steps — ultimately at the expense of your own happiness.
You shrug off compliments and find it difficult to celebrate success — you're always seeking more. You cling to checklists, are highly self-critical, and want to be "the best" at everything you do.
The hard news? Our culture tells us we fall in love. (This is a passive posture.)
The reality? We actually create & build love. (Love is an active asana.)
You don't need to date harder — you need to date smarter.
Smarter not harder
I'm a Certified Life & Relationship Coach, and my mission is to support you with my transformational 4-step method:
Alignment
- Envision your ideal relationship and the energy you want to create.
- Cultivate emotional fitness for awareness, security, and balance.
- Define your relationship blueprint, focusing on internal qualities.
- Discover the values that bring you joy.
Attunement
- Bring yourself into energetic and spiritual harmony with your future vision.
- Turn obstacles into growth gifts, fueling deep personal growth.
- Upgrade and rewire spiritual beliefs, becoming confident and magnetic.
- Develop a supportive relationship philosophy, practicing non-attachment.
Action
- Gain clarity on connecting with open energy.
- Identify and communicate standards and values confidently.
- Create comfort in navigating conflict and setting boundaries.
- Gain power practices and insights from both masculine and feminine energies.
What will be different in your life once you've worked with Jacqueline?
- Purpose — You'll learn how your shadow energy (anger, jealousy) is data to discover your desires, then gain clarity on what you truly want and value in life — allowing your passions and purpose to shine and guide you toward a more fulfilling, purpose-driven life.
- Confident Communication & Conflict Resolution — You'll heal your LABS (Leaky Ass Boundary Syndrome). No longer absorbing other people's emotions, you'll learn effective ways to communicate and handle conflicts and challenges with grace and self-assurance.
- Emotional Fitness & Mental Mastery — You'll break free from old patterns, cultivating deeper emotional awareness, acceptance, and resilience — with tools to move through catabolic emotions like anxiety and depression with greater ease.
- Deeper, Juicier Relationships — You'll experience deeper, more meaningful connections by breaking free from co-dependence, with confident communication skills that create stronger bonds and fulfilling inter-dependent relationships.
- Juicy Joy — You'll learn how to harness joy in any moment as you reframe shame and blame, embrace your achievements, celebrate your successes, and learn that failure is part of the process.
- Power — The byproduct of creating emotional safety and security? Power. When you say BYE to people-pleasing and focus on yourself, you gain the confidence and sovereignty to set healthy boundaries, honor your needs, and share your innate magic with the world.
- Self Love — As you release your shadows and fears, you'll embody self-compassion and unconditional self-love — unlocking your potential as the empowered King or Queen you are, a magnetic force.
What clients say
Working with Jacqueline is one of the best decisions I've ever made and has been the best investment of my life. I'm more excited, empowered & on purpose in my life than I've ever been. She's helped me create a more beautiful life. I actually think she's a God damn Jedi.
It felt like working with Jacqueline was this huge permission slip to be myself.
When I started working with Jax, I was amazed at how powerful and insightful she was. She helped me explore things about myself and relationships I had never explored. I learned more about myself than I had ever imagined. I walked away from our sessions feeling lighter, empowered, and excited — things I had not felt about dating in years.
Jacqueline hears me in a way I have never experienced. Regardless of the context of our conversation, I walk away with a sense of peace and empowerment. She is powerful.
Jacqueline is a remarkable coach, guide, and intuitive. Jax has helped me numerous times to quickly clarify what is important and how to immediately let go of what is not… She brings forth joy and laughter in the toughest of life situations.
Working with Jacqueline was a joy. As a busy woman who has always prioritized my career, I found myself looking forward to my weekly calls and recognized they were one of my most important hours of the week — I'd always walk away with more clarity, ease, and confidence.
Working with her was a wonderful experience. Her kind heart, sharp mind, and open spirit were exactly what I needed in a coach… After working with Jacqueline, I landed the job of my dreams.
Jacqueline is a lifesaver. I reached out to her when I was in search of that secret to life — the secret that gives Jacqueline the glow that radiates in every one of her photos.
The love you desire, desires you. Let's build it.
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I'd love to hear from you.